Where are you from?

When you meet new people they often ask "Where are you from?". For a lot of people it is an easy question. But for others it is tricky and can bring on a lengthy answer your interlocutor might not want to hear. Often, if you mention more than one place, they will ask you to choose a country or language as your favourite one. It is like asking a mum to choose between her two children. 
I feel French. My parents, grandparents and close relatives are French. But I often, now, want to add that I have lived 13 years in England (most of my adult life) and so feel a little connection to Britain.
I have been reading a lot of articles this week about ethnicity, culture and language that have made me think about my daughter's future.
Madalena Cruz-Ferreira at Being Multilingual talks about a phrase which is dear to our family: Minha pátria é a língua portuguesa (My homeland is the Portuguese language).
I am really wondering what my daughter will consider to be her home and her language. She was born in England, but now lives in Germany. She speaks 4 languages. We will most likely move again in the future. She technically has two nationalities (even though she currently only has one... don't get me started on the Portuguese bureaucracy... that's another blog topic). I wonder how she will reply to the question "where are you from?": Will she be confused? Will she be annoyed?  I guess that is that part of the multilingual and multicultural upbringing. Something that needs to be explained and valued (in my opinion).
 I completely agree with Madalena Cruz-Ferreira on the myth that "belonging to more than one place means that you don’t in fact belong anywhere". I feel that belonging to more than one place or belonging to more than one linguistic group (more than one language) makes you see the world differently, enriches you and makes you a better person. But this is hard to explain to people. Preconceived ideas and myths are still deeply rooted in terms of multiculturalism and multilingualism. 
I just hope my daughter will grow up to be a wonderful confident person opened to all cultures. 


Check out this wonderful art project about mixed race/ethnicity: The Hapa Project. In their own words, it "was created to promote awareness and recognition of the millions of multiracial/multiethnic individuals [...]; to give voice to multiracial people and previously ignored ethnic groups; to dispel myths of exoticism, hybrid vigor and racial homogeneity; to foster positive identity formation and self-image in multiracial children".